6 Months of Dating to 15 Years of Marriage And the Year We Almost Quit
When Love Is Real, But Life Brings Its Challenges
We said “I do” 15 years ago with hearts full of dreams, and about 2% understanding of what marriage actually requires.
No amount of premarital counseling could’ve prepared us for what would come:
➡️ Seasons of plenty and seasons of barely scraping by.
➡️ Parenting pressures, grief, job losses, big moves.
➡️ Miscommunications, reconnections, early-morning prayers, and lots of grace.
In this special episode of Mandate to Multiply, we’re sharing the real story behind 15 years of marriage.
What we did right, what we did wrong, and how God kept us rooted through it all.
The Dating Story That Set the Foundation
Before there was “us,” there was a decision: Would we do things the world’s way or God’s way?
Dating was about calling, not just chemistry. And we made some unpopular choices:
- Set boundaries that protected our purity
- Asked difficult questions early
- Waited to have sex
- Relied heavily on community
Were we perfect? No. Was it worth it? Absolutely.
Our intentionality in dating laid a foundation of trust that we still build on today.
And for those wondering if purity still matters in today’s culture, this episode is a love letter to the legacy that waiting can build.
The Hard Truths That Helped Us Stay
Falling in love is easy. Staying in love takes God.
Over the past 15 years, we’ve learned some truths the hard way and we unpack them in this episode:
1. Feelings can’t fuel your marriage, faith has to
There were days we didn’t feel “in love.” But we were committed to something deeper than emotions.
2. Purity doesn’t end at the altar
How we honored each other while dating shaped how we handle conflict, temptation, and connection today.
3. A marriage centered on God doesn’t mean it’s without struggle
It means there’s always hope. Always grace. Always a way through.
We talk about the moments that tested us, and the small decisions that strengthened us.
How God multiplied our marriage by molding our hearts.
What If You’re Still Waiting for Your Love Story?
This episode isn’t just for married couples. If you’re single, dating, or praying for a second chance, this episode is especially for you.
Because we believe in God-written love stories. And we believe that your waiting is not wasted.
You’ll hear encouragement for:
- How to date with intention and clarity
- Why God’s timing is always perfect
- How to hold the line on purity when it feels like you’re the only one
- What to prioritize in a spouse
Listen to Episode 6 of Mandate to Multiply
6 Months of Dating to 15 Years of Marriage And the Year We Almost Quit
→ Available now on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and YouTube.
We get real, raw, and reflective. Sharing the moments we’re proud of… and the ones we’ve had to repent for.
Because if our journey can help even one couple, or one person in the waiting, it’s worth it.
Final Encouragement
We don’t have a perfect marriage. But we serve a perfect God.
And with Him, nothing is wasted, not your singleness, not your mistakes, not your waiting season, and not your marriage struggles.
If you’re dreaming of a relationship that lasts, here’s our advice:
Start with God.
Build on faith.
Choose each other daily.
Pray together daily.
Make communication a priority.
You’re not too late. Your story’s not too messy. And real love is still possible when God is at the center.
You’re not just being prepared for a relationship… you’re being multiplied.
And share this episode with someone who needs hope in their relationship journey.
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